OK Cas, so do you want to settle? If it's the same where you are as here, you will know that you can disagree and that will buy you some time whilst the family court sends you to mediation (apparently that's mandatory in getting you both back to stage one where you will find an agreement), so I have been told by the legal eagles over here. They told me that this can take months but I guess that it's all about how long you want to hang on for ... or not. Glad that D has not been mentioned.

Originally Posted By: Cas05
other stuff but I can't remember it all...it's all out of sequence. In the mean time I received a difficult phone call and I had to ring him back. He asked what was wrong when I rang back and I told him about the call and he was very caring and helpful.


No wonder it's out of sequence! It's so damned upsetting that it's a wonder we know our own names at the end of it all.

I hear that this 'difficult' phone call was something entirely diffent though and I am glad that your H was caring and helpful. I hope that it works out OK whatever it was and I hope that your H will continue to support you with tonights news.


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09