OK Oz ... breath. The party is in full swing but so is H feeling sorry for himself. The first time my H went, he was back in a few hours, the second time he was only away overnight. There's time.
I echo what the ladies have said above and if you could get to speak with your coach again, that would be most useful - now's the time that you need the big guns in for best advice quickest.
Remember some of the mantra's and don't beat up on yourself. You have DB'ed with a good heart and you were getting good results. If H is now scared, it's only what he's "asked" for and the fact that he thinks that you have a bf is purely in his own head. He has no evidence and to expect you to have to prove yourself when you are at work is beecr*p.
Try to get the party over with tonight (enjoy it!) and perhaps tomorrow will bring a different picture at dawn. H is REACTING - and that's because you took control of the rope. Don't drop it in fear. Let's hope that Gucci is looking in ... he's long over due a visit.
For now, try to relax (I know, easier said etc.) and try to reframe the negative in to a positive so that you can get some good sleep and see what tomorrow brings.
Sorry that this is all sounding like waffle - you know that I don't have the answers but I REALLY do want to offer my support. If only we did have the answers, eh??
Good night (((Oz))) - we are here.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
