Hey T2~ Glad to see so much great conversation here! I can't get over how patient and peristent you have been throughout your whole nightmare--I give you so much credit!!!

You have given me food for thought...H and I are in the last stages before D. The house is for sale and we are splitting assets. I had been so good at detaching until now. All of a sudden, I am sad all the time and wondering if this is right thing to do...what if he comes out of MLC after we are D?? I can't seem to stop thinking about that!

Any ideas or advice?? Keep detaching? Keep him thinking there is hope? (it worked for you....)Ask if he is sure about this (that seems to go againset Dbing...) UGH!!!!


Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)