You indulge yourself have the biggest "pity party" possible, and I will join you later in a glass. Im sure it all seems "shellshocked" at the moment, but hes basically gone into panic mode. One thing which is important to remember none of this is your doing! If Oz has to stay a little plumper and safer for H to feel comfortable then that is wrong on both sides of the coin. He really does have issues of his own to solve first so maybe being on his own will help that happen quicker, if you are there at home making it safe by just being there he maybe has put off his thinking! Most of all dont wear yourself out trying to analyse his behaviour its totally irrational at this point of time! Will pop in and out to see how the party is progressing later (hug)
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