T2--just looking over some of your thread....you have been a great support to alot of people. Something that struck me and I have been around here about a year, is that I keep feeling like my h jsut does not want me anymore, stopped loving me, yet I read here that it could be guilt..I had never thought that before.....my h had some kind of an ea with his ff..I truly beleive him that it was not romantic..all that is on my past threads....I keep wondering why he won't make any effort to work on the m, and it is possoble that he feels guilty for the part he played in the m. I have been grasping at my own guilt for accusing him and assuming that he was having an a....thinking that I have hurt him is why he does not come around...boy have I been stupid...we do not have any r talks as I am afraid of what he might say....his lease is up next month and I assume he has renewed it, as he has not said he would like to come home.....your opinion....and I have asked many people this(KAW, Jethro, LL, they all know me)should I ask h to have a r talk, and how do I do it so as not to sound demanding of answers? Some say let him be..in his own time he will talk...I am not so sure..maybe he is waiting for me to ask him to come home, just maybe there is GUILT there and he wants my forgiveness..maybe he really does not want me or our m.......
I am sorry that I rambled on and took over your thread..you seem so wise and I just wanted to throw it out to someone other than the regulars that I have been posting to.
