Don't be silly, you're always welcome here. Drop in anytime and share away, that's what this is all about!
I think your H's having left things at the house IS his silent foot in the door. Expect a lot of indecision, a lot of 'non-committment', a lot of "I can't do this anymore'....because right now, where their heads are at they want to believe that. They want to believe anything and everything that they think will spare them any degree of pain for what they're doing.
I wish ALL of us could have the strength to just back off, stay civil and watch them work through their madness...because THEY WILL.
MY H is proof of that. He was so cold, so indifferent, so harsh just 15 monts ago...and today he's fighting so hard to be the man he was before MLC took over his heart and mind.
