Well, I did end up telling her parents but it was only out of concern and for the fact that they can keep a closer eye on the welfare of Wee Man than I can. I have no idea what goes on behind closed doors but they can come and go any time they please. They were very grateful for me telling them and said they would have a word with her. They also promised not to say any of the information came from me which means we shoudl still hopefully get on ok.

I've decided to tell her tonight when I pick up wee man that I've been hearing some pretty horrible stories about her and that since I still care about her I'm worried about her getting hurt. I'm not going to be judgemental about it. Hopefully she'll take it in the right way. From what her parents told me, she's pretty disgusted in herself for the way she was acting at the weekend. Maybe this will help her start to grow up a little and start acting a little more responsibly. I've accepted the fact that we're not getting back together but I don't want to see her spiral down a road to self destruction. I'm not sure there will ever be a time when I don't love her and I only want her to be happy.

Kev


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.