Hey Gucci, Puppy, RobX and Coach!

[BigJohn]

BJ,

Thanks for the clarity, what do u mean by wife posturing?

I am going to pick up that tough love book today and learned optimism too.

She is acting very nice today and is even willing to pick me up something at the mall when I asked. I told her not to go out of her way.

She is going to be on her own with this class she wants to take when I tell her the vac slots r full at work.

I am going out tonight to enjoy myself after working 2 days straight.

Jman,

What I meant by posturing was my W appeared to be gearing up to file for D first- presumably in an effort to kick me out of our house.

Regarding the mall visit, I wouldn't discourage your W from being considerate to you, especially if you asked her to pick up something for you.

Sounds like you are doing the right thing regarding not taking off vacation time to acommodate her class.

Hope things are well with you. Take care.