well been informed by ex's auntie that ex has indeed sold the car, the car was his pride and joy mainly because he had never been able to buy a brand new car ever before, he had this car designed and painted how he wanted it, choosing the seats, extras all the frills so to speak, he paid 22k for it four years ago and hes sold it for 5k, telling auntie he had to sell it because he needed some money, neither he or wifey is working at the moment, so that just leaves him with two mortgages to pay, the house I was in with him is all he as left, and I suspect that will have debt running up on it also, what a mess he is in and getting deeper in, will this guy ever hit bottom?