hey, SMW told me the good news! I know I've never been on your thread, but any kind of reconciliation is wonderful news.

I think more than keeping an eye open, you need to continue focusing on yourself. The problem with watching their every move is that we tend to react to them in different ways. We don't want any information we find to cause us to react differently. Just because our WAS comes back, doesn't mean that everything is back to normal. It doesn't always end like that. Sometimes it takes time for an A to dissolve completely. It did with mine.

Just continue to encourage the positive actions your H is doing so that he will continue doing more of them.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."