JR,

Sounds like you had a great time with your boys - and like you're finding more and more that the changes you made in yourself over these last 15 months are real and lasting - and genuine to who you are. Your gesture - of offering your W a laptop - really impressed me - and your compassion for her is just so very powerful and sincere.

I was glad to read your update from your weekend - through what you've described, I can also see that your boys are proud to have you as their father.

Keep doing what you're doing - stay positive - stay strong - it seems like the more you take care of yourself - and the stronger you become, the more it resonates with everyone around you. That's a blessing.

-Carlos.


Me:39
S3,S13

"We consent to live like sheep." W.H. Auden

On my own
Separation #4