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WE do ourselves and our R a great diservice by asking our confused and guilt ridden Hs to reassure us of anything, whether it's our sexual attractiveness, their love for us etc....because THEY are convinced that no matter what they say, WE will assume they're full of sh$t.



i never quite looked at it this way, but they have to feel this way. thanks t2, that was totally insightful. there has to be a gradual building to that point again, where they can trust us to believe what they say eh?

wow, another tidbit of realization

kitti