1) Do not panic and do not get desperate around him.
2) Reassure him that you do not have a BF.
3) Let him know that you are interested in working on the M, but not as the sole source of effort.
4) MAYBE - suggest he talk to Laurie, alone, so he can give his side.
If he pushes for transparency, maybe even consider letting him read your thread here. Afterall, you *don't* have anything to hide save a burning desire to save your M. And if he sees that some of his antics have annoyed you, well, tough! Time for the big boy pants. Also, if he gets transparency from you, you get it from him or no deal.
Last edited by Dia; 09/22/0903:47 AM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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