I'm sorry, but I think you're completely "rescuing" her. Letting her know you're able to forgive is one thing; catering to her while she is still having her affair, and the language you're using, doesn't force her into her own crucible, in my opinion.
Puppy
Puppy,
I have been thinking of this today and am beginning to agree with you. When I look back on it, I can easily see where you are coming from. I just need to not get caught up in the moment and keep my mind on the bigger picture (what she is doing to me and this family).
