Vindicated? No. I don't need to see my daughter upset about this to feel vindicated. I already know I am right about this.
Then I guess there's not much left to say, is there?
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I realize this isn't popular when you feel wronged and hurt. But it is what it is. We said I Do for life, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse til death do we part. There was nothing in the vows about until I don't like you anymore or someone better comes along.
How many of your vows have you broken, Kevin? Did you honor your wife for better or for worse, or didn't you? Did you love her like Christ loves the church? Do you even love her now? Or do you love you? As C-bart said, the prodigal example is RIDICULOUS to use for married people, but even if you wanted to, the father (NOT the husband) let his son GO.
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The way of the world is not the way marriage was set up by God.
Damn straight. Most marriages have nothing in common with the way it was set up by God. Mine didn't. And if my H hadn't started making changes, I would have left with a clear conscience. You can preach on and on about your covenant, but you clearly didn't honor it when you had the chance.
You're not a stander, you're an extremist who's brainwashed yourself into believing your wife really doesn't have the choice to divorce you. You scare me.
And I see no remorse or repentance from you, just some stubborn preaching that she has no right to leave you. If you were truly repentant for your part in what went wrong you would not take this stance, as if you owned that woman.
Sorry, but I can't take listening to you use God anymore. I really hope something wakes you up soon.