A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[C-Bart]

Dia,
I'm going through your entire thread again cause I caught it about half the way through the first time. Not sure what your dissertation is about but if it is about relationships you have a good start:-)

I just read the room devoid of o2 analogy and have to say it is brilliant and should be mandatory reading for all LBS. I'd add that the hose doesn't have to be another person it could be hope of a new (fill in the blank). I have never read anything so insightful. After reading I was filled with empathy towards my spouse like I've have't felt in years.

Good luck over the next couple of days. I have a feeling its going to be a rough weekend once your H breaks it off with OW. I can imagine he is going through a huge array of emotions.