Let me ask you something, SN. How's that going for you, confronting her about the EA?

Here's the thing - she is not worried at all about whether you are stupid or not. She is thinking about herself and what she wants because that's what they do.

So, to answer your question, what are you hoping to accomplish by asking about the EA? Are you hoping she'll tell the truth? Not gonna happen now. Are you hoping she says, yes, I am having an EA and I am so sorry? Not gonna happen now. Get what I'm saying?

Do not worry about appearing stupid. Just live your life. Start to think about what changes you want to make for you. Start to move forward in your life.