Kevin,
I'm not judging you. Your probably one of the people I relate to most on this forum. As scary as that is for me to admit :-)

Not sure anyone is arguing with your intentions. It's the methods you are using that has most of us concerned. You heart is in the right place but it can't be trusted.

The prodigal son is a great story (one of my favorites) but it doesn't apply to your W as you R was not parental. It's convenient to us this story as a reference as it removes us from the equation. It puts us above our S. Again I tell you this because I've been were you are.

Jump over to Dia's thread about page 4 and read the post about the room with the o2 being sucked out of it and you will have some perspective of what you wife has lived with for years. You are associated with that room and until you change your association your wife will try and escape using any means necessary. Telling her to get back in the room will have no effect. Telling her her D wants her back in the room will have no effect.

Your making some steps in the right direction but there are some major hurdles you will not get over without help.


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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09