Vindicated? No. I don't need to see my daughter upset about this to feel vindicated. I already know I am right about this.
It saddens me to see my daughters having to go through this when they shouldn't have to.
But I always tell them that their mom loves them and that they need to love her.
As far as mdoodles goes, I am not saying she should have to put up with what she has been. I'm simply saying she has a covenant M and she should continue to stand for her M and pray for her H to change and come to his senses.
This isn't about male or female. This is about we made a vow for life and we have a covenant with God and our S regardless of how they are acting or sinning.
It is about standing in the gap for your prodigal S and your covenant M and your family.
I realize this isn't popular when you feel wronged and hurt. But it is what it is. We said I Do for life, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse til death do we part. There was nothing in the vows about until I don't like you anymore or someone better comes along.
The way of the world is not the way marriage was set up by God.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...