Vindicated? No. I don't need to see my daughter upset about this to feel vindicated. I already know I am right about this.

It saddens me to see my daughters having to go through this when they shouldn't have to.

But I always tell them that their mom loves them and that they need to love her.

As far as mdoodles goes, I am not saying she should have to put up with what she has been. I'm simply saying she has a covenant M and she should continue to stand for her M and pray for her H to change and come to his senses.

This isn't about male or female. This is about we made a vow for life and we have a covenant with God and our S regardless of how they are acting or sinning.

It is about standing in the gap for your prodigal S and your covenant M and your family.

I realize this isn't popular when you feel wronged and hurt. But it is what it is. We said I Do for life, in sickness and in health, for better or for worse til death do we part. There was nothing in the vows about until I don't like you anymore or someone better comes along.

The way of the world is not the way marriage was set up by God.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...