You don't have to go on a spree (I know I'm lucky in that regard) but do something to change your look for the better. Target has stylish clothes at low prices. Or get a new hair style. Something that will make you feel good about yourself. It may sound vain and shallow but it really does lift your spirits. And so does attention from other women.
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