Ok, can you swap appraisals with someone so you can have it done on your house without paying? Not by a friend since W will think friend is just saying what you want.

Looking good will make you feel good. I went on a major shopping spree and changed my look. New clothes coupled with weight loss definitely put a spring in my step. Have a stylish female friend go with you for an opinion. Or go to a personal shopper at a department store. Many offer their services for free because they're counting on you to buy the clothes at their store. But you don't have to, just get suggestions then you can look for less expensive versions.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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