Coming out from lurking in the shadows.....

[forward]

Sorry that you find yourself here. I would agree with others on the board. The support here has helped me so much.

You are, unfortunately, in the early stages on MLC. It's long and it is painful. Some of us have been trying/working for a long time.

One of the things I learned over time is not to take things so personally. When I began to realize that H had created his own mess and I did not have to help him clean it up, I must say that things began to seem different for me. I had less anger towards him when I realized that much of what has happened has less to do with me and more to do with him.