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Will get to AZ someday VH. Watch out!

Hope it won`t be mid summer though!

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(((((Fallgirl)))))

I'm not going to say that you'd like the desert, but I do think it would be an experience! Mid summer is probably not the best time, though it is the best time for storms. April, May, October, or November are probably better choices!

Well, I've gone and done it. I've filled out all the info the paralegals needs, and paid them. In a few days I should have the Petition For Dissolution of Marriage.

I didn't want to be here, but it's the place I have to be. And I am ready to be here. I'm liking the direction my life is going. And I am liking the way that we are cooperating on the kids. There's still going to be money stress for a while, but things are going to get consistently better!

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Hey Jeff

I just signed my petition on Tuesday, I know it stinks.

But you did what you could do, and you know that. So I hope that helps...

Glad you are liking the direction your life is taking. And cooperation is a good thing. smile


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I'm glad you got the PMA going!

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(((Jeff)))

It seems like time.

Glad you are doing well otherwise!


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"I didn't want to be here, but it's the place I have to be. And I am ready to be here. I'm liking the direction my life is going. And I am liking the way that we are cooperating on the kids. There's still going to be money stress for a while, but things are going to get consistently better!"

No I can`t do the quote thing properly Jeff, but I`m glad you are coming through this difficult time so well.

Been reading through lots of post separation sitches here and there is such a huge variation on how well people cope-and how much the children are affected by it all.

Bet things are cooling down in every sense for you in AZ!

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There is a huge variation in how the kids handle things. I really believe that a large part of this is the kids following their parents' lead. If we act like it's the end of the world, guess what? It is going to be really hard on them. Being resentful, angry, vengeful, etc. isn't just bad for us, it hurts our kids. I'm not saying that the kids are not affected, just that we can have a lot to do with how, and how much.

It's cooling down a little here, though it is supposed to be about 32C here today. I guess it's all relative!

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Thanks, VH.
Glad this process is taking a long time as its giving me a chance to heal so I can be strong now for the kids.

Hmmmm 32C still very hot! Wouldn`t mind those warm evenings though!

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Time is on our side, no matter what the result, I think. Someone should write a song.....

But it's a dry heat! Really! It is not as uncomfortable as you would expect. Though I wouldn't run a marathon in it. Hmmmm, I guess I wouldn't run a marathon at all, but you get the idea! It's been getting down to about 20C at night, so probably 25 or so in the evening. The next few months will be really nice!

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There`s another thing, VH, songs...music in general... means so much more to me now. All that emotion! But especially the joy in so much of it!

I seem to go through phases.

Been through Meatloaf, Leonard Cohen phase, then Lionel Ritchie, James Taylor, and right now its Eric Clapton.

All harking back to younger days of course...

Think I`m the with the MLC!

Though I do throw Black Eyed Peas and Snow Patrol into the mix every now and again just to keep me updated!

Yup, you`ve nice autumn days ahead!

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