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[Trixi]

All good points, IP. And, yes, I thought the same thing about it just being a stall tactic.

Bottom line is, he isnt going, because he Doesnt Want To Do Any Work on your Relationship.

True.

I am hoping retro will stir something in him.

To answer the questions:
1: If he doesn't go, I'm going to "go Gucci" for up to 3 months.
2: Tough love from you- I like it. And in response--I am going to need TONS of support from people to stay strong.

I am weak when it comes to him.

And I wish I could argue, but I too will be astounded if he goes.