Kevin,
What I find frustrating is that you can't see what you are doing to the kids. You still care too much about what wife thinks. How wife is so wrong. Etc. You do not move forward.

Kerry- meetup.com was suggested many months ago and Kevin went to a few and seemed to drop it.

Kevin- I must admit I am also baffled when you tell other posters to not give up on their when the WAS is unbelievably bad. Why in the world would Mdoodles stick by her cheating hubby, who steals her jewelry, forecloses the house, barely visits the son and keeps up with an OW that has a restraining order against her for severe harassment of MDoodles.

I don't understand your mind frame. I don't understand your logic. And I am not trying to be mean but as a female- your behavior, your "wheel-spinning", and insistence on your view of religion as being the correct version would drive me far, far away.

KEVIN PLEASE CHANGE AS A PERSON! I KNOW YOU HAVE IT IN YOU. I AM REALLY ROOTING FOR YOU.

I am not rooting for you to get your marriage back but that you change as a person.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)