I do a lot better with do this, do this, than grey area.
A couple of things about that.
First, give a man a fish and he eats for a day, teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime...and he more than likely stole your fishing hole that ingrateful b-tard.
Second... No. Too much responsibility and too easy if something bad happens for you to blame someone else as giving you crappy advice. You're not a robot.
Third, This is for you, you do this for you. You grow, you learn, and the results are all because of you. If you're marriage is rebuilt it is because of your actions, and it isn't a lie, it isn't someone elses words coming out of your mouth, its not someone else plan, you not only charted your course you walked it.
I got my experience by doing and listen to the advice that made sense to me. Not because someone told me what to do...it doesn't work well that way, I am me, my wife knows me, not someone putting words in my mouth or making me dance.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
