Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
Ok, you're right about sending the paperwork to show that you're willing to move on and not stalling. I guess it just works better when you actually are busy and can't get around to everything she wants the minute she wants it.


The paperwork has been done on my end for 6 weeks (which she knew), it's just a matter of putting it in the mail, but I get your point. I'll mail it...eventually.

Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
What Gucci was pointing out is that I really let go and moved on. Only then did BF start wanting to know what was going on with me and wanting to reconcile. I was never good at lovingly detaching. By the time I dropped the rope I was honest and truly done with him. And it felt good.


A little easier to do in your sitch because you didn't have any unfinished "business". Anyway, once again I get your point.

Originally Posted By: pearlharbr
I'm reheating the lumpia my friend made and making grilled cheese sandwiches (BF's recipe). How did the chili turn out? Good recipe you feel like sharing? wink


What's lumpia? Sure I'll share my recipe.

Got to cheer against Wayne tonight. My opponent has him and Ronnie Brown. Guess I'll be cheering for Addai and Rickey Williams to have big nights.

I've got plans all weekend...maybe too many...so lots of time to focus on me!


Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage)
W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage)
M4
Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D
W moved out 8/29/09
I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done