The not listening to anything they say is valid, but you HAVE to put creedence in their complaints....

If something someone says to you stings, then there is probably truth in it.

AYK, these things, these are the things that only you know, and can fix.

Have you ever read anything on controlling behaviour ?

I think it would surprise you.

These changes that you make, they need to be real and for you, not for her.

One thing about this, and you need to understand this completely....

These things about you, and your plan to make your changes, That has to come from you. Anything less will be a ploy to win her back.

MY plan, or anyone else's plan for YOU, is a lie.

You have to "own" it.

Although she isn't talking to you, she is watching you. Very close.

So you told them you loved them too much.....Did you SHOW them that?

You are never gonna talk your way out of a situation that you acted your way into....

Look into the mirror....