I do a lot better with do this, do this, than grey area.
Should I just take over as much responsibility as I can on things and if she remembers great,not say anything, I haven't been at all.
Like snacks for this weeks game,bills do I just have kids run in and grab them off the counter?
At one time she had said, back before the bomb, she had to accept a man that would not change.
So help me change. Spell it out for me please.
You guys have the experience I don't.
I know the wife I had, never asked for any help on anything, she did it all and she internalized it all. Some of the things she's internalized are crazy,but she did.
That is why we got to where we're at.
I didn't get up with the D when she was a baby. I didn't handle the checking account. I tried to fix everything and didn't listen very well. I did not just let her vent,I always had a solution and a compliment. I told people how I felt, I mean I had a more intense conversation, than hey what a great day.
I told them I loved them too many times, I said too many nice things to my family,I spoiled them rotten.
And more importantly I never told them what they would do that would make me unhappy.
