stbxH today, asked me for an honest try to reconcile. My biggest fear would not be that they meet for sex again, it is that they will be missing each other as friends, as humans, as partners in life... K
He asked you today after 3 1/2 years? Wow! I totally understand your fear. I remember when H and I attempted several reconciliations only for him to tell me that "too much had been said and done". I never quite understood what he meant on his side. Now, I totally would have to agree with him, "too much has been said and done". I don't see where I could ever get that trust back with him.
I guess you never totally stop being in love with them, but my question to myself would be, could I go through three years of hell like these past years have been for me? I'm coming up on my three year bomb anniversary in Oct.
Keep us updated. At this point in my life I have often wondered what I would do if faced with your situation. My personal belief would be that I couldn't do it, but not sure my heart would agree.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
