Her e-mails....You respond to what pertains to you or the children....I.E. What YOU can control right now.
Communication ? Don't mean to rub you wrong here, but if this thread is a glimpse of that, you are correct.
As long as your intentions are pure, the kids should not be a button. Keep their best interest at heart and realize they are NOT pawns in this....And NOT a source of information to be passed.
You should be polite with her, and not let her push any buttons. All Relationship talks are intiated by her, not by you. Electronic communication is so impersonnal. Try to have ANY convos in person if you can.
Most MLC'ers, after the first or second line, they shut down anyway, hence information being lost in there.
Shut the phone off and let this rest.
Forgiveness is a good start, just remember that you have to identify and find yourself too.
It's easy to say that you forgive her for this when you only half understand what that means. I hope you 'Absorb" that.
IF this is MLC, its not gonna end overnight, or for that matter, a whole bunch of overnights.
Pull up a chair, get comfy, and UNDERSTAND the path that she has to walk.
AYK, I know you don't see it now,but this really is a gift from her to you.....
