As painful as it is to realise that another day will go by and nothing is going to happen, bathing in that feeling of defeat and frustration doesn't feel too good. Some of the links I have tried to lift my mood even when I don't have what I want are:

a four minute clip on releasing the feeling of Unfair by Dinter:

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=dinter+unfair&search_type=&aq=f

Abraham Hicks Video clips. Moving up from miring in feelings of discontent to better expectation:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTCuMGPhG...rom=PL&index=30

I have become an expert at holding the feeling of inner complaint about the "unfair" situationn but that blocks me from doing things from a place of hopefulness.

Hope this helps.