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I need to know there is hope that she can love me again, that she can make love with me again, that we can find new joy. i cannot seem to feel that hope since she is so cold with me.


There is hope.

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I know I have contributed to this because I am "needy", needing reassurance that she loves me, that she finds me attractive, that I am a good lover, etc.. She is tired of trying to reassure me.


Read up on "co-dependence"

Start working out.

Confidence is the antidote.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.