My post was based on current times - and the assumption that his mistake will never be an option to him again, and he is making steps towards making his failings right.
Of course but when you say the kids will know the truth in the long run...isn't the truth that he left his family and cheated and she moved on with her life??? You can't live in the past but having nearly lost my mind and come back from the brink of being practically suicidal, would it be wrong for me to hesitate if my H decided on a dime that now that I was with OM, he wanted me back?
There just aren't words to describe what it feels like to be this vulnerable. And, I suspect as a woman it may be more challenging, seeing as we are a "dime a dozen." And don't tell me that kids are the same obstacle for single men with children as they are for single women.
She is terrified to make a choice but does not want to be an adulterer in the mean time. Really sad.
