there's one variable here...I am not so sure there is an affair...I went away for a whole weekend and the only time he left the house was to go running or get coffee...He was here every night. He is here every night and on weekends. She was my best friend 3 years ago..I ended the R with her...the only time he could be with her is on their lunch break and I work with her and know when they go to lunch.
You will have to read my last couple of posts to get a feel for what is going on now...I just want him to come out of the basement and put his ring back on but I dont want to push him...he wants to have S with me again...that is the odd thing..he started being nice again...that is why I am confused..
Thank you so much for your advice Robx and Coach...I am confused though..I am not sure the OW talk would work bc I am not sure there is OW...I do appreciate you taking the time to post to me...but things have turned around since my first post:)He has been affectionate and loving again...which is weird and his actions do not match what he is doing...
