Two wrongs don't make a right, and living in the past never solves anything.
My post was based on current times - and the assumption that his mistake will never be an option to him again, and he is making steps towards making his failings right.
I agree on the current point - there do need to be clearly established times, but I think it's most important for the kids, not either adult. I don't even have a separation agreement, but we rarely, if ever deviate from our sharing times, and it has helped our kids a lot.
