so why are you guys letting stbxw's "L write up the stip"? I don't want to nit pick okay, but isn't that again putting it in her hands? Why won't stbxw just go nuts again, and stop it all? I'm a little confused as to why it's up to them to write up the stip....just asking.
But I'm glad it went well overall. Thank God you'll remain in the house. And as Kerry said, what's up with the custodial agreement now? Anything in writing? Any tools for enforcement when "someone" disobeys it?
And fwiw, are you asking to split the kids each weekend? Just curious. I can see pros and cons, but it's a drag if you want to go out of town with them, as she'll be able to stop it by cutting in for her days. Or so I think.
And for the record, maybe fh just wanted you to reconsider your present ventings. We don't mind them, and I do see the value of it big time. But why ask him to comment on the rest of her behavior? IOW, I did not see his comments as blaming you for the demise of your m, and I feel as if we've all reassured you of that. Have we? I surely want to. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
