Rachel,

Your input is invaluable to me, thank you.

You said:
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They are going to feel justified in what they did (I don't care what they say to the contrary) for quite some time. The only thing you can do is keep making him glad that he came home.



I think that idea sticks in my claw. I have trouble (ego gets in the way) that I'm suppose to feel grateful that my lying, cheating, scoundrel of a H has come home...whooptie doo. Lucky me! Stupid me thinking HE should be grateful that I want him back. God this is so one sided, is it always going to be about what's best for THEM, while our needs, feelings, and wants, take a back seat so THEIR fragile egos get stroked? Haven't THEIR egos been 'stroked' enough already?

GROWL.... gee venting really IS fun.
T2