Ack! Ok, first thing you need to do is stop responding right away. Seriously. Because she's still driving things, everything is on her timeline. Always wait at least 24 hours before responding. Just get out of the house or do whatever but stop letting her set the pace.

If you haven't mailed the paperwork yet then don't do it. You're still letting go but the idea is to project the image that you're really busy with your own things and she is no longer your number one priority.

Then make it true.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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