I have been out of the DBing community for a few months - been enjoying life, loving kids, went through a job change, and so on.
God has been blessing me in unimaginable ways! I can't fathom how much good has come out of a bad situation. I'm not divorced yet, but W has the paperwork for a dissolution, and I think we only had one thing we disagreed on.
It's pretty funny that I haven't posted since April! It has been a good summer. I'm moving into Surviving the Big D - it is sort of a notice to myself that my new life has started, and is actually well under way!
At this point, I simply want to start journaling my actions. My goals are to get out more, stay fit (lost 40 pounds, and have kept off for almost a year!), make sure that the divorce gets taken care of with the best interests of the kids.