I have been out of the DBing community for a few months - been enjoying life, loving kids, went through a job change, and so on.

God has been blessing me in unimaginable ways! I can't fathom how much good has come out of a bad situation. I'm not divorced yet, but W has the paperwork for a dissolution, and I think we only had one thing we disagreed on.

It's pretty funny that I haven't posted since April! It has been a good summer. I'm moving into Surviving the Big D - it is sort of a notice to myself that my new life has started, and is actually well under way!

Here is my last thread - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1755086&page=1

At this point, I simply want to start journaling my actions. My goals are to get out more, stay fit (lost 40 pounds, and have kept off for almost a year!), make sure that the divorce gets taken care of with the best interests of the kids.