If FIB needs all his friends to be on the same page in order for him to do something then he is a puppet. If someone, one person, not in FIBs shoes, can knock him so out of whack with a statement that may or may not be true, then FIB isn't where he says he is in this process.
Frank, I think your wound up over this because you identify so closely with FIB...granted your wife isn't nearly as monsterous as FIB's, but on a personal level you and FIB are cut of similar cloth.
Your harping on one point, over and over, do you need to be right that much? Is that the old Frank, the one who wouldn't let go? Is this what you want to be?
FIB,
Look...honestly, did that one statement really throw you of your game that much? Replay if you must ALL of your interactions that you have had with your wife in the last year. When where you angry with wife, what could have been differnet, and would it have changed anything?
Now ask yourself...does it f-ing matter? Life would be grand if we could go back and 'fix' the things we preceive as mistakes...or it would be hell...because we would never move forward, always going back instead.
You are where you are today.
Your wife would still act the same way if you were Buhhda.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
