I fully understand what you are saying. I can look back and see what you have explained now. I have made many mistakes in trying to save my marriage. I understand that she might not even come back. I guess I'm just going to lay low for a while. Yes I did take her for granted and now I'm paying the price for it.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09