There are two dogs. She lives in an apartment and won't be able to take the dogs.
What about YOU? Do you want them? Are they worth a fight? Give them to her if you don't want them. State that you want them if you do.
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It's tough to split them up as one of them goes crazy once he is away from the other.
Let her have the one that goes crazy then...Keep the well behaved one LOL
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The other stuff I really don't care about. There really isn't much value in any of it anyhow.
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What makes me mad
It is OK to me angry. Channel the anger into productive activity.
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is that she just goes and lists everything that she wants including stuff that she gave me as a gift and I get what ever is leftover.
Ask for what YOU want. I sorted our things into three groups. I use/like it much more frequently than her - IE mine. She uses/likes it much more frequently than me - IE hers. Things we both use about the same. - ours.
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The only reason that I would fight for anything is so that it will gain some respect.
I just manned up and said "I want you to be happy. If this is what you want, I will not stand in your way."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
