This is a place where we all come for support, not to bash one another for having a different opinion. Not everyone here will have the same ideals or values as you, but they are still hurting and are still trying to cope with the hand they have been dealt.
You're right, so where is the compassion for FIB that would prevent someone from saying that if he can get past his 'anger' his marriage might be saved'? He's not angry, he's HURT. Having a different opinion is not the issue. It's voicing it to a man who is hurting, causing him to second guess himself.
I'll ask again. Given the situation of pure hell FIB is living in and his constant second guessing himself, do you believe that telling him that his marriage could be saved if he could get past HIS anger was an appropriate thing to say?
Do you?
This is about using your words appropriately and taking responsibility if they hurt someone.
Yes it is FrankD. So do it. j-
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