FrankD,
I'm amazed that you don't see what you are doing. You have done it before elsewhere and regretted it. Stop it. You are creating tension and anger here. We all know FIB and we all know FaithfulH....we all do.

FaithfulH sent a private email to FIB, who chose to ask us for feedback on the anger issue of his and his w, which we gave. FIB did NOT, as you state, ask us to discuss FaithfulH's "motives". Who are we to do that?

And yes, I thought faithfulH had a point but I think also, that in FIB's sitch, as I've made clear, it's now too late. And yes, I do think FIB's mind reading is unhelpful to his sitch but is not causative. So what?

As you posted to someone else, like k4 (?), work on your own issues before you take on someone else's.

While I think that's BND's point as well, I'm not speaking for her. And please let FIB talk for himself. He's really quite articulate.
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
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