How many dogs? Do you want one or more of the dogs? Dogs are personal property. I left both my dogs with Msr2c. She bought one more. I do miss the dogs but get to see them here and there.
Anyway, Good time to think about what you DO want and DO NOT want. I decided I was not paying lawyers to argue over personal property. I listed out what I WANTED. I left all the things I DID NOT WANT. I started over in new house, new dishes, new whatever. felt good to pick out what I WANTED.
I keep working on ME. Compassion, Forgiveness, Patience, Understanding are very good tools to heal the pain. I have no control over MsR2C. I have full control of how I react to her. I am manifesting my dreams while she is going down her path without me. I "set her free". I focus on my own happiness without putting it into someone elses hands. If I get lonely, I go out and interact with people.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
