More of the same behaviors: -saying ILY -long "talks" -being home whenever H comes over -reacting to H's anger - button pushing -sad when around H -resisting H around legal sep -feeling responsible for H's anger, frustration
Trying something new: -No more ILY until I hear it -no R talks, or very short succint ones - I will set and keep limit -GAL or busy in house -light, upbeat, laughter when around H -agree and let go (not show it bothers me) when h talks about legal sep -Let H deal with his own anger/frustration