And in answer to your question, YES I do think it is appropriate. It is his opinion. He wasn't out to hurt FIB, and he sent a private email, and didn't post his opinion on the DB board.
How does not posting his opinion on the DB board matter? He sent it directly to FIB, sending him into a tailspin.
Does anyone read FIB's posts???? FIB asked him for help regarding his STBX's anger. He addressed NONE of the issues instead choosing to say that he thought the marriage could be saved if FIB would lose his anger. FIB went into a tailspin and posted the mail anonymously asking for an opinion about the comment - second guessing himself and HURTING.
FaithfulH outed himself and knows now that he hurt FIB but takes no responsibility for it. And is flippant about it.
Do you think that's ok?
And again, I am not angry. I'm amazed at the lack of responsibility towards someone who is hurting.
