Hi Deb,

You are becoming my spiritual leader

YES, I do need duct tape. Please forward a case ASAP.

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You are looking for a fight, you are angry he is doing nothing and you are doing all the work.



Yep, I think that's true. As someone said in an earlier post...I may be trying to sabotage this reconciliation so that I can have some control over it's outcome.

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Ask him what he wants from you; meals, socks. Then compromise, You'll do "this" if he does "that".



Duh !!!! This hadn't occured to me. Guess it was to 'simple' for me to think up on my own...wasn't hard enough to figure out...I'm still missing the forest for all the trees that are in the way.

I will be waiting by the mailbox for the duct tape...BUT, if I see the lumber company coming with a load of 2X4s I'm running like hell.
T2