I'm both happy and sad to see where you are. I'm of course sad your M appears over. I'm happy you are no longer in limbo and you're moving on. I think all the work you've done this past year will pay off greatly. Your H, on the other hand, seems to be in much worse shape. To leave your M is one thing, but to be so wimpy and aimless about it is just sad.
Thank you for following my situation. Been almost a year for me now. I can't live in limbo forever either. I guess as long as I keep seeing movement I can keep holding on. If I ever reach the point of wanting to sell my wedding ring, I'll know I'm done too.